A youthful Man identified as Evans Kosgei From Elgeyo Marakwet Killedd his girlfriend Jackline after he sold his land, sheep & tress to take her to Muranga University only for her to end the relationship in favour of another guy who was well educated and with more money than Evans.
Men, your girlfriend’s school fee is non of your business, if her parents can’t educate her don’t take that burden & stop using money to buy affection, you can’t negotiate genuine desires. Negotiated desires leads to negotiated compliance which is most cases turns chaotic. Focus on your personal development.
Kenya’s “trail of love and death”: Why spouses and lovers are killing one another
Counseling psychologist Sheila Wachira of Shewa Relationships in Nairobi advises couples to fight anytime they disagree rather than harboring resentment that could explode with disastrous results.
Most couples would rather not discuss their problems. Because the resentment has been building for a while, that is the reason you see a debate turning into a media controversy. Childhood is equally important. Parents ought to refrain from arguing in front of their kids. Wachira cautions, “You know what they say about students surpassing their teachers?”
Ken Ouko, a sociology lecturer at the University of Nairobi, attributes the rise in spousal killings to the devaluation of human life, inadequate wooing that forces unmarried people into unsatisfactory marriages, and the stress and difficulties of married life.
Many married people are really unhappy in their partnerships, yet they are unable to end them due to their children or their fear of being socially shamed. They will eventually lose it, grab a knife, and murder their spouse. According to Ouko, those who are calm, devout, and peaceful are the kind who will use lethal force when their frustration becomes intolerable.
An imam named Sheikh Ayub Shariff claims that since many married couples disregard the Bible’s and the Quran’s precepts, marriage has become extinct.
