1. Blaming God instead of taking responsibility for entering into and staying in the relationship
2. Denying that the relationship is over. Keeping you stuck
3. Losing themselves and their worth to the point they feel worthless
4. Fighting to stay with an ex who is toxic
5. Seeking revenge to hurt the one who hurt them. You become a bitter person
6. Jumping into another relationship to fill the void. Adding to confusion
7. Rushing healing. Being too hard on themselves instead of exercising patience
8. Being lazy to heal. No one will do the healing for you
9. Giving up on love entirely instead of realising that love is not dead, they just loved the wrong person the right way
10. Generalizing everyone because of an ex/exes
